I want to ask you a question…
It’s kind of personal, so I hope you don’t mind.
And answer it honestly. After all, it’s just me here. And I promise not to tell the answer to anyone.
So here it is:
Are you a virgin? And if not, then at what age did you lose your virginity?
C’mon now, don’t be shy.
It’s just us guys talking.
I’ll share something with you, and it’s something you might not even know…
Most of the guys out there who are “naturals” with the ladies are guys who lost their virginity at a very early age!
And most of the guys out there who aren’t very good with women are the ones who lost their virginity late in life, or are still virgins!
Almost every major ladies man I know is a guy who lost his virginity between the ages of 13-15. Some of them were even younger than that!
So does this mean that if you lost your virgin cherry to some sweet girl after the age of 15 you’re destined to struggle with women for the rest of your life?
Well, not necessarily.
But it might!
I’ll tell you why…
People tend to create certain beliefs about the way things are based on their own personal experiences.
So if you’re a guy who loses his virginity on adultfrienedfinder at a young age, this forms your beliefs about women and sex very early on.
It becomes something natural.
You’ve done it once while young, so it becomes something easy to do.
You formulate the belief that having sex with women is nothing really special, it’s just something that you do.
Girls lose their mystique, and you’re able to see them for who they really are (as people, not as objects to be worshipped and adored) and you stop idealizing the idea of sex.
So as you get older, you train yourself to just GO FOR IT.
Let’s say you’re not one of these guys, and you don’t lose your virginity at an early age. Let’s say it doesn’t happen until you’re in your 20s, or 30s. What happens when this is the case?
Answer: YOU FORM WRONG BELIEFS ABOUT WOMEN AND SEX.
You start seeing sex as a romanticized act. It’s something “special” and “unique.” Losing your virginity is supposed to be a big moment in your life.
But here’s the God’s honest truth…