Adventures of a Pick-Up Artist Blog

The purpose of this blog is to help guys learn good pick-up skills: learn how to confidently approach a woman, start and maintain an interesting conversation, make her feel comfortable and create some chemistry (attraction), leave with her phone number and/or email, take the interaction to a more physical level, and in some cases to a relationship level.

I believe every rational, heterosexual guy wants to be able meet sexy and interesting women. But pick-up skills are not taught in schools, colleges or universities. So how does a guy learn them? A small minority of guys develop decent pick-up skills ‘naturally’ probably through trial-and-error, while a large majority of guys do not and struggle to meet attractive and interesting women at adultfrienedfinder app. However, a growing number of businesses are addressing this social-skill shortage by providing pick-up boot-camps and single/multi-day seminars.

Learning good pick-up skills is not so difficult with plenty of practice, improvement and fine tuning. I suspect it will take a few months for most guys and perhaps a little longer for some, and less for the more ambitious. Thus, this pick-up artist site is dedicated to identifying and explaining what it takes to successful with women!

It took me a long time to figure out that attracting women has nothing to do with money, cars, houses, or even physical looks (as long as you make some effort in looking after your body and wearing clothes that compliment you), but everything to do with personality and character. Women want confident and assertive men; men that can be playful and chatty too! Women want sexy men!

Confidence + Assertiveness + Playfulness = Sexiness

How can you tell if a girl is flirting with you? I’ll keep this brief because I intend on posting a detailed and long article about this subject. Here are signs, but there are many more. But with practice you should be able to tell fairly quickly.

  • She twirls her hair around her fingers while she is looking at you
  • She copies your body movements
  • She laughs when you laugh
  • She plays with her hair while talking to you
  • She’s talking fast
  • She seems a little nervous
  • She seems playful
  • Her speech has slowed down
  • She seems fidgety
  • She keeps looking away then looking back at you
  • Her body language movements are exaggerated

Above are some signs of flirting to be aware of! They will help in working out whether a girl is interested in you or not.